Why bad things happen in batches?
I don’t believe in astrology, even if you believe, it’s just a set of words that could or could not happen. A great astrologer once told me that I will start believing in God by age 27, I’m 40 now and wonder how nonexistent God is going to pop out of nowhere and make me believe in it. When I do ask questions about astrology, my friends who believe it and even some astrologers get furious, I don’t get why. Just for sun, when friends come to me with problems, I do ask them what did the astrologers say, they get really serious and say something, and I laugh inside seeing their ignorance.
I wish I knew psychology, sometime some incidents seems to happen in batches, and they seem totally unrelated to each other, it looks like you are destined to receive it. Here are two of them.
First, one of my relative bought a house in Bangalore, so he told the elders in my family that I should attend the housewarming, I did not want to travel in bus, it robs my sleep and next day would be somewhat, I never got a train ticket, and flight would be prohibitively expensive, so I said no, and thought that was the end of matter.
Looks like that jerk got really pissed off because I said no, and he started to pull string, and gave me unnecessary problems. I saw good people turn evil, the guy causing the problem was comfortably hiding behind them like a coward, unable to confront me. People behaved like psychopaths with me. I was baffled.
After dealing with those psychopaths, I thought what could go wrong? And it did. I was working in a company called Trumatics, and something happened to my co-director. He started to shout, he started to shout at me and every one like psychopath. I even saw him shout at my friend, because he was angry that he could not blame me that day.
I really started to wonder if fate had decided about me, (even though I had eliminated some psychopaths out of my life and was recovering,), if it wanted to be keep me encountering more psychos or something. In brief, I was wondering if there is some destiny or something?
The next incident happened recently, I was traveling in car with few people, the person sitting next to instructed me on every thing, he said which lane I should drive, when to put the indicator, when to brake and blah blah, I was frustrated.
A week after that his son was sitting next to me, and he told me when to switch on the wiper, he asked me to pick up speed in densely packed road that was almost dead still in traffic. I thought, okay this is a son of a psycho and no wonder. I brushed it off, maybe it’s genetics.
The very next day I was with a another friend whose company I am investing in, historically he was not like the father son psychos, a well tuned mind he was, he started say do this and that while I was driving. These three driving incidents happened within a span of week and few days, and I was wondering why am I encountering such a strange behavior of people in my car. I started to think about destiny.
Though coincidence, very similar stuff happening at very short intervals looks spooky.