I have found this annoying trend, a man drives his car is okay, but when he is with his family and kids his driving is weird and confused, just like his life is. He goes slow even when the road is fast, brakes sudden, seems to have no aim and destination, just like a married man behaves.

I am beginning to wonder if a man with a woman is just like man with a liquor bottle. Being with a woman increases dopamine level just like being with liquor bottle. A man with them becomes aimless compared to the external world.

What’s more dangerous is, a man to get a bottle of liquor will do what ever he wants, even if it’s evil, similarly a man who wants to get a woman will do what ever he wants, even it means evil to the very woman he wants to have. Think about the Pollachi incident for women, think about many petty crimes that happen so that one can drink.

When a man is with liquor or with a woman, will act strange too. Try disturbing a drunk. Look at all those people making illegal money via bribes and other stuff. Mostly they have a family story which to their mind gives them the right to break the law.

Think of Karunanidhi, what he has done to us just because he wanted to fuck his wife’s! His son is leader of the party as though there is none else who could lead, his grandson is next in line so that Stalin can be with his wife. Though not proven its gossiped that their family is #1 in looting this country.

So…. Have pity on these people. Evolution has created men to crave for women. Given a chance we all men will have as many women as we could, and as much liquor or any kind of dope we could. But we have a brain powerful enough to think, to put ourselves into the view of others. It’s as simple a person who does not want to eat by killing a conscious life just because he himself does not want to be cut up and knows the pain it causes. So think, even if you are a man with a woman or liquor, try acting like an evolved man, and not like an ape. Know that you are part of this huge universe and not just clam contained in a shell called family. It’s difficult to think broad for something that has evolved out of a baboon, but it’s possible.